Etiquette
The etiquette of the encounter.
These are not rules — they are manners. The short form of a shared sense of conduct, so that every encounter unfolds with ease, precision, and pleasure. The formal detail belongs to the Conditions; here, the spirit.
- 01
Mutual respect.
An encounter is an exchange between two equal adults. No hierarchy, no unspoken power play. I arrive at your place with the same attention as a guest you chose yourself — fully present, never intrusive, and I expect the same in return.
- 02
I come to you.
I always travel to you: your home, your hotel, the venue of an event. I do not host. It is more discreet for you, simpler for me, and every encounter begins on your ground — where you are most at ease. For travel bookings, accommodation stays under your name; I never book under mine.
- 03
Impeccable hygiene.
A recent shower, clean nails, fresh breath, a discreet scent. Non-negotiable on both sides. I arrive fresh, composed, ready — and I let you take the time to be the same if needed.
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Punctuality.
I arrive at the agreed time, sometimes a few minutes early to settle. I ask the same of you. Exceptional delays are signalled by message; beyond thirty minutes with no word, the encounter is considered cancelled.
- 05
Shared discretion.
What happens between us stays between us — both ways. I never mention your details, and I ask you for the same restraint: no photographs without written agreement, no screenshots, no public reference to our meetings. A non-disclosure agreement (NDA) can be signed on request.
- 06
A clear mind.
A glass of wine with dinner, a cocktail at the bar — with pleasure. Beyond that, I prefer clarity to excess. The encounter gains in presence, in precision, in memory. That's the state I like to be in, and the state I like to be received in.
- 07
Clear communication.
Your preferences, your limits, your desires: everything is said in advance, by message, calmly. The more precise, the more accurate the encounter. I answer the same way, without judgement.
- 08
The rhythm of longer formats.
On bookings of 24 hours and more, the rhythm includes rest, meals, and some personal time — so presence stays full from start to finish. The full detail is in the conditions.
- 09
The deposit, to hold the time.
A small deposit confirms the encounter and holds the slot cleanly on both sides. It is the only time we speak of money before meeting; the full terms are in the conditions.
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The balance, without breaking the moment.
The balance is settled according to your preference. In cash, it is handed at the very beginning of the encounter, once the door is closed, and nothing more is said of it. By transfer, it is received in advance, at least 24 hours before we meet, so that the moment itself is never crossed by logistics.
For the formal detail — definitions, payment, cancellation, travel, liability — consult the full Conditions.
See the Conditions →